REVISED LETTER - NOT PUBLISHED - AN APPEAL TO
LGBT NON-PRACTICING CATHOLICS TO TICK NO RELIGION BOX
The 2011 Census will be held Sunday 10 April 2011.
I feel it is important that members of the LGBT Community who are lapsed and/or
unbelieving Catholics ask themselves if they want to tick the No Religion box.
The views of the individual Catholic who disagrees with the Church are not the
views of the Church. It is dishonest to claim to be a believing Catholic when
you pick and choose what you want to believe.
Ticking Roman Catholic on the form says GOVERNMENT, TREAT ME AS A CATHOLIC, AS A
BELIEVING CATHOLIC. Thus Church teaching then must override anything else. If
you want the choice of using contraception, you have given up that right by
ticking Roman Catholic for a Roman Catholic does not believe in contraception.
If you disagree with a religion then do not join it unless the teaching is open
to change. The Catholic Church is not open to change. If it were, it would be
just like nearly every other religion that feels it can alter doctrines. It
would lose its attraction for those who simply admire the putative
unchangeableness of Catholic teaching despite its changing discipline.
It is the principle. Suppose a country is not secularist. If most people in the
country claim to be Catholic, then as they are not the teachers of the church or
the shepherds but they are the sheep, then the government should take their
claim to be Catholic as consenting to the bishops being consulted in state
matters. We all consent and give tacit consent to things that we may not like.
The consequences of lapsed and/or unbelieving Catholics ticking the Roman
Catholic box are as follows:
It assumes that one's baptism into membership of the Catholic Church was valid.
Catholic teaching is that a priest can withhold intention to give the sacrament
and go through the motions meaning the person is not really baptised at all in
the eyes of God. The Church will not recognise a baptism if it can be shown that
the priest was only play-acting. Some priests are secret unbelievers which means
they may not intend the rite of baptism to work.
Baptism is supposed to give you supernatural power to accept the Catholic faith.
If you find that you have always been unable to do so fully then you have the
right to take that as a sign that your baptism was null and void. If it works,
experience will tell you. Nobody has any business assuming you are Catholic just
because you were put through a baptism ceremony - it's not that simple.
By merely being listed as a member or listing yourself as a member, is the
minimal way of supporting the Church. To tick the box and support the Church by
declaring membership is immoral when you don't believe in it. It is promoting a
structure of deceit that hurts people. Some people give a lot to the Church and
find out to their horror that it is just a human organisation kidding itself
that it is from God. Think of them. Ticking demeans yourself for you are not
being true to you or to those who love you. It assumes that Catholicism is a
mere label. It is not. Catholicism claims that the Catholic religion is the most
important business of all. It says there is no salvation outside the Church. It
adds that there is just everlasting torment for those who do not join the
religion they believe to be of God, the one true Church. It says the Church is
not a human organisation but is set up and revealed by God so whoever is against
it or will not support it is against God.
The Catholic structure - communications infrastructure - is what works to
endanger LGBT rights. To defect from the Church, to give it no money and to stay
away from its services are things that are necessary to damage it or work
towards getting rid of it. One day, when HIV becomes worse among gay men than it
already is the Church will say, "They didn't have to have sex and contract this
disease. We urge the state to prioritise funding for cancer patients etc who
have not got sick through their own fault. There is not enough money to go
around." Repudiating the Church is a matter of life and death.
It makes no sense us LGBT people to expect the Church to change its teaching
against homosexuality for us. The Church would be saying it is a mere human
organisation if it could change doctrine. It can't do that without becoming a
new religion and it would not be the Church anymore. It will have to excise a
lot of the Bible to please not just LGBT people but those in the Church who have
problems with other teachings. To support the Church is to try and damage the
cause of gay rights.
People who pick and choose out of a book like the Bible that they say is
authored by God are deluding themselves that they really believe in it. They
really believe in themselves for they decide what is to be picked out. Those who
do that and who do it with Church teaching are not Catholic believers. Even if
they are Catholic they are not Catholic believers.
LGBT people are not heads of the Church. It is not their job to teach Church
doctrine (only to repeat what they have been taught by the authorities). That is
the job of the bishops and the Pope who is the head of the Church. Catholics are
expected to learn at their feet and pass on what they teach. To differ from them
in matters of faith and doctrine is to try and misrepresent the faith. If you
don't agree with the faith then go. Find another faith or found your own version
of Catholicism. Don't be like a person who claims to be a Muslim but who says
the Koran is satanic. Be honest. It is not up to you to make up the rules and
laws of the Roman Catholic Church. Period.
It is Catholic teaching that God makes laws we do not understand because he
alone has all knowledge and can see the benefits of these laws. Both liberals
and fundamentalists believe that God knows best. That dangerous idea is to blame
for much of the harm done in the name of God. It is naive to think that just
because we might not see anything wrong with homosexuality the Church shouldn't
either and may change one day. It overlooks the fact that though the Church
gives reasons for its crusade against homosexuality, the decisive reason is that
the Church's scriptures and traditions forbid it. Even if the Church were to
permit homosexuality, the notion that God must tell us what is right and what is
wrong continues to undermine gay rights. Why? Because it takes the focus away
from what people want and need and directs it to what is revealed. It becomes a
case of "I know because God, the Pope or the Bible tells me so and I don't care
if I am wrong". It provides homophobes with an excuse for saying homosexuality
is bad and gravely sinful. Every religion should be formulated in such a way
that no harm is done should it prove to be wrong. In other words, religion
should be as human-centred as possible. The excuse is so dangerous for it states
the matter is not up for debate. Unbelievers who say are against homosexuality
can look at the matter in the light of reason and evidence. The believer's mind
is closed for he does not care enough about people to be fair.
The Church's teaching against homosexuality is not the only problem with the
Church. The ban on sex outside marriage and without love denigrates people for
whom it is natural to engage in sex solely for pleasure. It accuses them of
doing harm when many can testify that this lifestyle is the best thing about
life. Also, the claim that even wilful lustful thoughts are gravely sinful and
will put you in Hell forever if you die is clearly harsh and uncaring. It is at
least implicit homophobia. Nobody should want to be part of such a religion. The
Church says that wearing scanty clothes makes you a sex object. It is not that
simple. It is more complex than that. The Church harms gay people through its
indirect teachings as well as its direct teachings. It is over-simplifying to
think that the problem is merely Church opposition to gay sex. Matt treats the
Church attitude to gay people and its refusal as a Church to support gay
relationships as a problem. That is insulting. It is not a problem. It is worse
than that. You do not describe racism or warmongering as problems unless you
have clear unmistakeable evidence that a resolution is possible and not in years
but sooner. Matt has no evidence that Catholic teaching can and will change
soon. The Church will not reconcile gay sex to its teaching for that suggests
that fitting gay sex in matters more than the teaching. The whole Church
doctrine of the sinfulness of contraception and divorce would have to be
abandoned with acceptance of gay sex.
The Church approves of the teaching of Herbert McCabe O.P. that not realising
that you are sinning is a sin itself. This makes a sinister insinuation against
gay people who are confident that they are good people. The Church says people
in Hell put themselves in Hell forever and it's nothing to do with God - to
accuse people of being capable of being that evil is itself scandalous. Where is
the proof? Without the proof there is no way to describe the teaching but as
hate speech.
The Catholic teaching of blame the sin and not the sinner (love sinner and hate
sin means the same thing) makes no sense. To blame the sin is to blame the
sinner. The person is his or her sins for they show his or her character and its
the character that is the problem. To wish evil on a sin is to wish evil on a
person. And it is vindictive to ever wish evil on anything or anybody. The
doctrine of hate the sin infers that the Church must do all it can to discourage
disobedience to its God. For example, social pressure must be applied to prevent
LGBT from living out their sexuality. No self-respecting gay person would
support the Catholic Church in any sense. They should invent their own faith but
it will not be Roman Catholic. Most people these days engage in DIY
Spirituality. Instead of conforming to Church belief in its fullness they pick
and choose but their real faith is in the many self-help books out there. It is
best to do your own thing and forget about formal religion.
The Catholic faith condemns harmless sexual acts outside of marriage such as
mutual masturbation as grave sins. This proves the Church cannot say it hates
the sin because it hurts the sinner!
If you consciously try to get rid of your Catholic faith or let it happen, then
you are no longer Catholic. Church law says that you have to be baptised - even
a Protestant baptism would do - and you have to consciously embrace the Catholic
faith and all its doctrine as true to be Catholic.
The process of formal defection from the Catholic Church has been discontinued.
However, Church law still recognises that one can leave the Church and cease to
be Roman Catholic. If a believing Catholic converts to Protestantism that is not
a sincere or genuine conversion. Yet that person is no longer recognised as a
Catholic. If they are not Catholics then how can the person who does not believe
be Catholic even if that person goes to the sacraments and declares themselves
to be Catholic? Belief is the basic requirement.
Ticking the box tells the state that you support the Church meaning the state
may formulate policies and laws that reflect the teachings of the Church. For
example, a country could be reluctant to legalise gay marriage if it looks at
the census results and sees that most have declared themselves Roman Catholic.
It is because people let their names be kept on the Church's member rolls that
the Church seems so big and because of its seeming size it gets away with things
it shouldn't. For example, John Paul II should have been in prison clothes for
his refusal to help the clerical sex abuse victims of his priests and bishops.
The seeming size is the reason society does not feel the revulsion to the level
that we would expect. The Church gets away with crimes because of its size and
society helps in this by having too many warm feelings for the Church. The
seeming size is responsible for the power of the Church. If you care about human
rights you will amend this.
It is Catholic teaching that since Jesus said the greatest commandment is to
love God with all one's powers and that the second greatest is love of neighbour
that humanitarianism, goodness to people for their sake only, is a sin. You are
to serve others not for their own sake but for God's. This repudiates the common
sense notion that religion should teach doctrines that if they prove false no
harm is done. For example, it is not right to upset people by saying they should
be at Mass every Sunday. Let people do what they want and if the Mass is
hocus-pocus then it won't matter.
The objective behind all the works of the Church is to bring people to believe
in Catholic doctrine. That is why the vitriol and the authoritarianism have been
toned down in recent years - it's a game to keep the pews from being emptied. I
would not like to think that people around me were being kind to me more for
God's sake than mine! It shows that rather than seek to change the Church, it
should be abandoned for its essential doctrine is toxic.
To tick the Roman Catholic box is to is sanction public and official Church
doctrine. Also, LGBT people are betraying LGBT rights in a graver way by
financially helping the Church.
Please read this letter again. Assist LGBT rights by doing what is true to
yourself. Good luck.