Your subconscious mind remembers everything that happens you. You never forget
anything – its still somewhere in your mind. All that happens is that you fail
to recall things which is different – that just means your conscious mind is
unable to get at this information but it is still there. Your subconscious mind
will have beliefs and perceptions that you are not aware of. The more you put
your conscious mind at peace with your subconscious the more you will get out of
life. The subconscious mind realises things that you don’t consciously realise.
That is why you can get bad feelings about people for no reason and be proven
right about them. You only use a small part of your mind – your subconscious
mind is vastly more powerful than you can imagine. It is programmable. You can
program it to take you out of unhappiness and insecurity to lasting contentment
and enthusiasm for life.
Feel inferior to nobody whatever their dignity is because as good as they seem
to be they might have more of a desire to become an blood drinking tyrant than
you ever could meaning you are a better person despite the things that make you
feel stupid and flawed.
Your mind is far greater than you can sense. Your conscious mind is only a small
part of the mind. The subconscious mind is the part of your mind that works your
conscious mind but you are not aware of it. It is full of beliefs, discoveries,
thoughts, feelings and memories that you are not aware of right now but are
still there. For example, if you are not thinking of what you had for breakfast
today the memory still exists but in your subconscious mind and not your
conscious mind. People using ouija boards soon see that the subconscious can act
like a separate entity. When people pray to God and feel that he has changed
their feelings to make them feel better and answered their prayers it is
actually the subconscious mind that has done this. You can treat your
subconscious mind as a separate being greater than yourself that has the power
to be your best friend if you treat it the right way. It will give you better
comfort than God for you have some control over it and none over God. God might
give you good feelings and incline you to be a better person but then he might
take these things away from you to test you or to crush you for one of his
mysterious good purposes and these purposes might be concerned with other people
and not you at all. It is foolish then to seek solace in God and not in your
reformed subconscious mind especially when it is a God like the Christian or
Islamic one who sends sinners to endless torment in Hell without any hope of it
ending. God cannot be used as a ground for self-confidence for your confidence
could be destroyed by him any second.
The fact that people who pray for consolation though they won’t turn to the ways
of God and still get answers to prayer shows that the subconscious mind is
really what is doing it for God will not comfort people to encourage sin.
Talk to your subconscious mind and ask for its blessing. Tell it you are sure it
will deliver and if it doesn’t it will bring you something far better. Picture
that you are getting what you are asking for in your mind as if you have already
got it for you are so sure of your subconscious mind’s power over you. Do your
part to bring about what you want. The subconscious mind is more intelligent
than you can ever hope to be.
Be often aware that your subconscious mind is with you and is there to be
changed into something dynamic and a force for good in your life. Feel its
friendship for it is like a separate mind in your mind and it responds to that.
You don’t need to feel alone.
If God exists then God comes first for he made us and loves and is perfect so
every waking moment should be offered to him which means that nearly everything
is a sin. It is a sin to enjoy your favourite record for you will not enjoy it
much if you occupy yourself with thoughts of God. God will block your progress
towards true self-esteem and the belief plays a part in all the evil you do.
When you release yourself from the burden you can say then that you are really
trying to do something to improve yourself as a person.
It is important that we be sure what right and wrong are and are not. If we are
not sure or very sure then criticism by other people will get to us for we
wonder if they have a point. To base right and wrong on God and not on your own
dignity results in you being less sure and that is why no matter how good a God
based morality is basing right and wrong on the certainties that exist in you
and which are you is better.
Many teachers tell you that you can get self-confidence by simply believing that
God is looking after you. But that is more confidence in God than in yourself
and you are using God as a prop. If you really had confidence you wouldn’t need
God. If you try to get comfort from God rather than your own resources you are
programming yourself to believe and feel that you can’t help yourself much so
you end up need God like a drug addict needs drugs.
To say you need God is to deny that you only do what gives you pleasure which
means that happiness is in your hands. Only you can decide to be happy. God is
your belief that you have decided to believe which means that you have created
this belief in your mind. So when you have to create God to get help from him it
shows that you could do it without him and indeed should for if you really love
yourself you will help yourself in the quickest most direct and simplest way
there is. God and deity-based religion only get in the way of your progress and
so are the cause of all the evil that is done in their name even if they say
they condemn it.
There is no need for religion or God when nobody or nothing can hurt me unless I
decide to use them as an excuse for hurting myself. Keep things simple. Remember
that to worship God is really to worship yourself because if you create God in
your fantasy then you must believe that you are better than what he is. But this
is egotistic and irrational and therefore harmful. It means you secretly feel
and believe on some level that you are better than everybody else which will
prevent you from enjoying life properly for you will feel that it is beneath
yourself to help them. If you are better than the God you make you must be
better than other people for your God is better than them! Religious people
propagate their faith not because they want to help other people but because
they want to reproduce the flaws in them that attract them to religion in other
people out of jealousy. Religion is egotism no matter how much good it may do
for egotism underlies the good works.
What is the point of saying you should not make a God out of any man when men
tell you what God is and wants which amounts in practice to the same thing? Do
not be manipulated any more!
You do not need God for your subconscious mind can take his place. You know
yourself better than God who might not even exist but you cannot doubt your own
existence so who better than yourself to be your own God and give meaning to
your life and help you live a fulfilled life? Deep down you would rather put
your happiness in your own hands than in anything outside of you for that leaves
you in control and you know that even belief in God cannot make you happy unless
you decide to be happy. To find happiness in God is not real happiness but a
delusion for true happiness is based on reality for happiness that is not is
dangerous. When a person feels so happy perhaps with drugs that they walk over a
cliff that happiness is not real but a trick that leads to destruction and the
subconscious mind which knows and reasons better than we ever could feels
unhappy about this. Happiness that attacks your subconscious mind will not last
though you may pretend to be happy when that happens.
It will take a bit of time to feel comfortable about being your own God when you
have been conditioned by religion but you will gain freedom. Soon you will feel
uncomfortable about having anything to do with God again! You will find yourself
being more drawn to people to practice this philosophy because their example and
fellowship gives you strength than to people who don’t.
Being happy is simple – it means gently but firmly changing the way you think so
that what you think is self-affirming and self-accepting and optimistic – but it
is not easy. But do remember that the subconscious mind does not want the evil
and malice your bad thoughts infect it with for it wants to help itself and you.
Survival after all is your strongest instinct. Good thoughts then are more
powerful than bad thoughts. But there many be so many evil thoughts that you are
not even aware of having that are haunting you secretly and unknown to yourself
so it will take time to conquer them.
Remember that when you list your good points you often fail to see how good you
really are so when you are judging how good you must take it for granted that
you are perhaps up to 20% better than you think. Feel it and know that it is
certain that you are better and that you always underestimate yourself through
memory loss or faulty perception or through false humility.
When a negative thought comes, first of all remind yourself that the thought is
trying to change your feelings and thinking so that you expect the worst and
give a bad performance that reduces the chance of success. Recognise that the
thought is not a friend but an enemy. But do not fear it for you have the power
to turn it into good. Secondly, do not try to force the thought out of your
mind. Accept the thought and transform it. Rejection is violent and stressful
and unpleasant and is a bad thought in itself. If the thought tells you that you
will not get that job you are being interviewed for tomorrow what you do is
remind yourself that you believe you are the right person for the job and why.
You bring up so many positive thoughts so that the negative thought has no voice
any more so that it stops speaking to you and becomes a good thought itself for
it realises that it was wrong. So you gently treat the bad thought. You don’t
rebel against it because that is too aggressive and shows that you are afraid of
yourself which is bad for self-esteem and we want you to enjoy the path to self-fulfilment.
If you believe in God you will find that you have to put his will before your
own so God commands this kind of violence against yourself. It is a cruel belief
because it is easier and better to see why you should be positive and treat
people well than to try and force yourself to live somebody else’s rules that
you may not understand for God has mysterious ways.
Turn the evil you have done into goodness by learning from it and trying to make
up for it by doing a good work to make up for it and then an extra good work and
this will help you deal with guilt. Guilt is trying to punish yourself for doing
wrong by making yourself feel bad. What you need is not punishing but to turn
your behaviour around. Don’t feel guilty but deal with evil in a positive way
and remember that no evil is completely bad and has a positive side. Remember
that evil is a mistake or an illness and not something to be punished for. Guilt
is useless for it tries to get the attention that is best spent on doing some
good works. Guilt is destructive. Guilt is doubled by the notion that God is
watching you and disapproving of what you have done. Atheism saves you from
that. It gives you more power to move on. God being good must necessarily
disapprove and judge and his opinion matters for he is better than you. So God
forces you to judge yourself and that is evil. It’s not what you have done that
matters but what you are going to do about it now. Self-esteem involves seeing
yourself as your favourite person which is only right for you know nobody like
yourself and nobody can do anything for your happiness but you. God should be
the favourite if you believe in him so abandon belief in him.
When you feel worried about something make a picture of yourself succeeding. Do
not let yourself think that this picture is wrong. If you can’t believe and feel
the picture is right then you need to see your good points better. List them.
List ways that will get you the best chance of obtaining your desire. You will
find then that you will be able to believe and feel the picture will come true
better. Have a fall back plan that is good – resolve that you would learn where
you went wrong if you didn’t get what you wanted. This makes everything far more
positive. If you see the picture as so real and hold it in your mind every time
a worry hits you, you are programming your mind to do its best to win your
success.
Avoid violence in your visualisations because violence is scary and is telling
your mind that you want violence which is incompatible with self-love for
violence can harm you. For example, if you are trying the placebo effect getting
the mind to heal the body and you imagine that your immune system is kicking
sickness out of your body that is bad. What you should imagine is that your
immune system is sending and delivering love to the sickness so that the
sickness changes into health.
Your subconscious mind acts like a genius inside your head. If you put evil into
it, it will send evil back on you – that is where feelings of inadequacy and
despondency and negative thoughts come from. To do evil is to tell it you are
evil and embrace evil and to program it to be self-destructive for evil is
destructive. If you hurt other people you are programming them to hurt others
and you so you are telling your own subconscious mind that you are consenting to
being harmed and it will oblige. To help others is primarily helping yourself.
Put only good and optimistic thoughts into your mind and over time you will know
happiness you never thought possible. If you put irrational beliefs like God
into your mind harm will result.
If you really have an immortal soul or a mind that God will bring back to life
then it follows that your spirit comes before your body. This belief is false
because you must put your body first. The body has to be cared for because you
value the mind in it so the body comes first for it is the shell and tool of the
mind. If you look good and look after yourself you will find it easier to be
good because you will like yourself and you will like your life when you take
care of yourself. This tells your mind that you love it and it warms to that and
serves you well. To put the mind first results in the subconscious sending harm
to you. A strong positive attitude and enthusiasm for life fights disease and
can keep a dying person living a very long time so Humanism heals.
If you find you don’t have much energy then it is recommended that you get out
of yourself. This stops you getting bored and sitting around worrying and not
seeing how good you are which waste energy. Do this and your energy will build
up. Laziness means you are willing to hurt yourself and others by doing nothing
and it makes your mind make you feel bad.
The more you feed your subconscious mind on kindly thoughts the more you will
find you like everybody more and this results in more goodness in your mind so
the sky is the limit! You will also find that strange but lovely coincidences
start happening more and more for the subconscious mind in your involuntary
movements and expressions influences the subconscious minds of others to sense
things about you that attract them to doing good things for you. The
subconscious minds pick up on little cues like they have their own language.
This is all natural though its results can seem like psychic powers. So when you
are happy you give off nice attractive vibes without realising.
If you do fail in the path to self-esteem and optimism don’t worry for it is
never too late to start again and be thankful that you used the path and be
conscious that it blessed you or has attracted blessings to you that are yet to
come. Thank your subconscious mind for your blessings and more blessings will
come. Treat it as a true friend.
Be humble. Being humble does not mean you put yourself down but that you have a
realistic assessment of yourself and your abilities and knowledge. Humility is
actually true self-esteem because you cannot love yourself if you divorce
yourself from reality for you need to know what is real to be happy, secure and
successful. Without humility you would not be able to improve yourself for you
will not see where you need to improve. If you are egotistical and arrogant that
is a sign that you have such a bad opinion of yourself that you don’t want to
see where you need to improve and this is not self-love and stop yourself from
really being decent and really good.
If we have a problem with worry then the very first thing we must do to deal
with it is to realise that it causes pain but does no good. Unless we realise
that we will never succeed in breaking the habit for that is all it is. The next
thing we must realise is that worry is a bad habit and we can stop doing it. The
final thing we must realise is that for each of us our happiness is in our own
hands not God’s. It is irrational to say that God is all-good and all-powerful
and so we should not worry for things that make one worry still happen and are
still possible. We break the habit by looking at the good side of everything and
by realising that we can stop the worst from being the worst and bring good out
of it. We must avoid people who say things that make us worry and correct every
remark that seems negative so that we are always saying positive things. We must
realise that nothing is really that bad and that good is most likely to happen
and when we are sad or disappointed that it is the way we react to things that
makes us feel like that not the actual thing itself.
Do not fear wealth. Work for it if you wish and welcome it. It gives you the
power to help other people. Believing that money corrupts or that it is somehow
wrong to be wealthy deprives you of satisfaction. Money doesn’t have to be bad
and believing that it is or is likely to be bad means you are programming blocks
to prosperity into your consciousness. If you are afraid of money you won’t want
a nice job or a wealthy partner and that could lead to you becoming a loser.
Teachings like, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than
for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God”, are harmful.
This philosophy makes sense. We understand it and how it works. That is better
than having Gods and rules we don’t understand. The philosophy is better than
faith for it is knowledge and even if we don’t use it well we still get hope for
we know it is there and we can use it to help ourselves. We can keep going even
when things go terribly wrong.